Kid's Chores
If you bemoan chores, you can almost guarantee that your child will as well. It's important to set a good example. Even if you don't ''really'' enjoy scrubbing that tub (let's be honest, who does?), household tasks can be more fun when done with your child. Giving your children these tasks has benefits that go far beyond a clean home. It gives them a sense of accomplishment and teaches them responsibility. Here, some tips and tools that will help you get the ball rolling.
Some Basic Tips
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# '''Give options''' Create a thorough list and let your child choose. Make it clear that they have to do each task at one point or another so that they don't stick with the easiest one each time. This will give your child ownership over the tasks.
# '''Work together''' You don't want your little one to feel as though he's the only one doing chores. If you work together, you not only show that it's a group effort, but you can get a good feel for how your he tackles projects. Plus, if the task is too overwhelming, you can gently direct him so that he will not become frustrated or discouraged.
# '''Convey the right idea''' Chores are not punishment. If you instill that in your child's head, it will make them more bareable. Be certain your little one understands that everyone does housework and that it must get done in order for a household to function.
# '''Give praise where praise is due '''Thanks yous and compliments let a child know that he or she is doing a good job and that the work is appreciated. It will help implement good manners as well.
# '''Be specific''' Sure, they're capable of doing chores, but they're still kids and sometimes kids need extra guidance.
# '''Use a chore chart ''' Great for keeping track of who's doing what (and that includes you, Mom and Dad). It's important for children to see that they aren't the only ones contributing and that you're involved as well.
Chores by Age
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'''The Essentials'''
What you're going to need to make chores fun, feasible, and kidsafe.
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